Is it in levels like first e-mail, then, text, then, phone call, then ask for a meet.
Also if it is when do you do each of these things? (After 3 messages etc?)
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i've only done it a few times, I hate online dating.
i only went out with one guy from online, and came close to a few others, but I HATE online dating.
guy I actually went on a date with:
he messaged me-->after a few messages he asked me to email him--->after a few emails, within 2 days or so, he asked me to meet and for my number--->he called the next day and within a few days we went on a date. he texted me to plan the date but didn't really talk to me much in general. he liked me a lot after the date and immediately texted me that he had fun after, but I wasn't into him so I sent him a message the next day, a very nice one, telling him that. he still tried to contact me a few times after.
another guy, I actually messaged but he imed me and asked for my number, but took over a week to text me, which was pretty lame. and he was asking all these way too personal questions for a first conversation he was weird. so I let our text convo fizzle fast.
another one was messaging me back for a long time and he would take days between messages, like he was timing it. it was lame, and it took him forever to even email.
there is no set time, but I don't believe in dilly dallying because you don't know sh*t until you meet in person. I think that within a week of meeting online you should be talking on the phone or texting and setting up a date within a few days.2