I went out with a female friend on Sat night (admit I have feelings for her but I'm not letting on and keeping her as friends). Anyway she seemed a bit off from the start and preoccupied with a guy she has just started dating over the last 2 weeks (since I last saw her). Anyway things got a bit off at times didn't speak as much, then on the way home we didn't speak much either. I text her next morning to say she seemed a bit off and preoccupied and she said felt the same about me. But she said she was sorry, I replied back saying OK no worries, she then replied back asking if we are OK as she would hate to lose me as a friend. I replied back saying we're OK and she replied back OK with a smiley. Anyway me being me, I felt I should send her a nice text this morning saying along the grounds she means a lot to me as a friend and a misunderstanding would not make her lose me as a friend, look forward to seeing her in a few weeks. She hasn't replied back nearly 5 hours later. She works but has ALWAYS replied back within an hour or 2 max. I sent the message on WhatsApp and she hasn't been online since about 9am today (I sent the text 10am). She must have got a notification and seen my name. Should I be concerned? Should I allow a few days more? Or shall I send her a normal SMS later if she hasn't replied asking if things are ok? I don't want any games!
Most Helpful Girl
I agree with anonymous. You guys already patched things up, what do you expect her to say to the message you sent today? I mean, don't you get messages from people and not quite know how to respond to them? It really would make you seem needy, like you need constant reassurance. A person who needs constant reassurance is bloody annoying!
Just assume the conversation has ended, act normal, and plan for the coming weeks without worrying so much what she thinks about you.3