I've never had a boyfriend, and throughout the years I've tried my best to improve as much as I can, both inside and out. I'm a very nice person, I have a good heart, I'm caring, I'm fun and not shy, people say I'm funny, and I'm positive. I'm of coarse no Angelina Jolie or Megan Fox, but I am pretty, I like to take care of myself and my personal hygene. I am open minded and very understanding of people and not into materialistic things. I go to school and work, and don't really meet many guys. When I go out, I still don't meet many guys. I don't get invited to many parties since my friends rarely have them. Where can I go to meet guys? People say let love come to you, and some people say to go out and get it myself. This Valentine's day I was kind of sad and I sometimes cry about it, (I know it sounds stupid) I feel I have to be lucky like all the other girls who have bfs. I don't know if the one for me exists. How did you meet your current husband/wife? I'm 19
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Aww, please don't cry, a womans eyes should never be full of tears unless theyre tears of joy. this goes out to you and all the other girls in your situation, and there are many: there is nothing wrong with you, you're not some ugly, undesirable freak, and any guy who shuns away because you told him you never had a boyfriend is a total a**hole douchebag and you know you deserve better.
The reality is, the few great guys that are out there don't care if you've never had a boyfriend. In all honesty, if I met a great girl I really liked and I was her first boyfriend I would truly feel honored. The society we live in puts so much pressure and emphases on dating, relationships, and sex that if you're not doing one of those, it makes you feel like you're a loser or are missin out. We all want love, we all want that one person we can share our life with and we all feel great loneliness many times in our lives so you are not alone.
It sounds like you're doing fine in terms of putting yourself out there, parties are not the only place to meet people. Get involved in organizations on campus or elsewhere. Pick up hobbies that put you in contact wih people of similar interests. Align activities you get involved in wih who you are, that way you can meet like minded people.
In the end, you're 19, super young and have your entire life ahead of you. It doesn't help finding love if you're always thinking you'll never find it. You sound like a great, normal girl and any guy would be lucky to have you. Just focus on you, filling your life, and doing what you love and life will bring you to someone when you least expect it.1