Will make this short. A guy said he liked me, I was the most beautiful woman etc. We met and then he disappeared. He didn't bother to explain anything to me. I sent him a few nice messages, but he didn't respond. I asked if he wanted me not to contact him anymore but he didn't respond to that either. I feel so stupid, like a clueless stalker. Maybe he didn't want me to contact him, but he never said that, and unfortunately I am not good at reading between the lines. Maybe I was supposed to understand something, but sorry, I didn't, and a nice man would at least communicate. No matter what the situation was he could have at least tell me not to write to him. Was I not even worthy of 5 minutes of his time for him to tell me that.
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Wow. Well one thing is for sure. This guy is a dick. A total dick, and therefor not worth your time.
Thing is, though, I have no idea how to answer this one. I mean if the genders were reversed, I'd swear he was playing the old "leave her and ignore her until she gets the hint and leaves me alone" game that women play on men, all the fucking time. But I don't see that in men very often. Still it's not impossible. Either way, this kinda reminds me of a movie title. "He's just not that into you" specifically.
Look he left you, didn't come back, shows absolutely no sign of interest, doesn't bother to return your calls. If he had any interest, I think he would have done something by now. You don't have to feel stupid though. I mean seriously, at least you made an effort. So you can at least tell yourself at the end of the day, that this is not your fault. Just forget about him, and move on, maybe find someone else, if you want, but this guy was not worthy.
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