So a guy started texting me last week we chatted for a few days but I found it hard to keep talking to him as I have loads of exams coming up and needed to revise, I tried to keep texting as much as I could and explained to him that I was revising and couldn't reply, yet if I didn't reply in 5 minutes I'd get ? about twice, a few days later this was still happening and I explained that I was busy and couldn't talk, he was putting me more and more off texting, two days ago he said that I should just text him when I can, the past two days he has sent the same message 6 times when I haven't replied so I told him again yet I still get LOADS of messages, I don't know what to do as I've told him so many times, do all guys do this? what can I do? please help!
HELP! don't know what to do, he sends me LOADS of messages.
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If he's like this now, I would worry about him being possessive if you guys go out. you never mentioned if you actually liked him or not? you don't have to keep texting him if you don't want to. A guy I gave my number before was similar to your guy, if I didn't text him back I would get texts like " oh I guess you're busy?" or "haha you don't seem to be free to text me?" Completely pointless texts if I wasn't texting him back anyway! With this guy I texted him to ask him to stop texting so often and if I wasn't texting him back it was because I was busy and had better things to do! of course he texted back instantly and didn't seem to get the hint at all until I said out straight that if he was the type of person who had his phone glued to his hand all day we wouldn't be very compatible as I rarely text people.
If you don't want him texting you, just tell him! Don't hint about it, just say it out straight. You really don't have to be nice about it if you don't want him texting that often. it's not the end of the world for you or him if you tell him out straight not to text you again.
just chill he ocd. just let him know "sorry I'm studying cause I don't want to fail lol"0
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