I'm in my first relationship ever and I would like advice on how to keep a guy happy.
Both guys and girls can answer.
Most Helpful Guy
Maintain regular contact. If you get our hopes up, don't intentionally do anything to dash them. If it looks inevitable that you'll disappoint, warn us in advance. Be specific about everything.
Don't sugar-coat and don't deal in generalizations.
"Not sure what I'm gonna do about this" means nothing. "I can't make the party because I got evicted from my apartment today and there's another dude hitting on me and I don't know how to deal with it" gives us something to work with, however unpleasant.
- "Not sure what to do. I'm really kinda busy." (DOING WHAT?)
- "Don't know if I'll have time." (DAMMIT, I MADE time for YOU!) Use instead: "I know this sounds shallow, but I'll be ridiculed by my folks if I'm seen with you."
What ever you do, don't insult our intelligence. It never ends well.0