Guys tend to only really care about sex, why do they bother dating? Is it only because most guys can't get sex without trading security for it? Guys tend to get into relationships with females and then are unhappy with them for not being sexual Barbie dolls ... so why bother if you will hate her and want to leave her if she is not perfect looking and pleases you exactly when and how you desire?
If most guy's main drive is for limitless sexual opportunity, why do they date?
What Guys Said 7
men have a messed up sense of women. there I said it, its because of p*rn and the media, not all guys, but some tend to picture women as objects, they care less about feelings and more about the physical, what theyve seen, what they want to try no matter how degrading it is for the woman. but women are not little angels either, if a woman covers her body up and doesn't wear those stupid lulu lemon pants, well see what kind of men she attracts, and what type of men the super cleavage, ass showing women with their thongs sticking out will attract. its a two way street, don't like who your attracting? find a new method.1
Variety is the Spice of life.0
Sex is quite easy to find... but sex with any kind of emotion involved would be far nicer.0
Duh, dating leads to sex.
Regarding relationship, many girls just suck at it. I'll date and f***, if you want a relationship show me why you'd be special and better than the other ones. If you expect me to find you amazing for no reason and make huge efforts for you and be commited while you do nothing but giving me headaches and be paranoid, controlling and boring then just let me have a big loud laugh...1
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Although I disagree that men only want sex, it is hard-wired into us to want sex a lot. A relationship provides an opportunity to have sex .Although a relationship is not always about sex, if women was to approach a random guy and ask "Want to f*** me?" chances are he won't decline .1
I'm sorry to say that most guys aren't in it just for sex. I date to find someone I could live happily forever with. Sure sex is a part of it but you would be beside yourself to say that it's the biggest component. Relationships built around solely sex do not work.5
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"If most guy's main drive is for limitless sexual opportunity,"
"Guys tend to only really care about sex"
Also not true.
"why bother if you will hate her and want to leave her if she is not perfect looking and pleases you exactly when and how you desire?"
And three for three in the wrong stakes.
Thanks for playing, but you only get three lives in this game, and you wasted them all.2
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What Girls Said 4
As a feminist, I have a hard time thinking men are THAT animalistic because men are people, not animals :p men have their own reasons for only wanting sex or wanting relationships, or both.
But I do know sex is a big motive for almost everyone, especially for men. If we're talking science and animal behavior and even evolution, men used "dating" as a means to successfully pass on their genes. They would invest their resources (the food they caught, the shelter they built) to feed and protect one female in order to mate and birth a child with her. any more than one woman would be too much physical work, so it was somewhat unfeasible. *mind you, we're focusing on MALE behavior. I could go into female behavior, but that's not the topic :p
So he keeps her from mating with other males, cares for her, mates a bunch, and when the baby is born, he helps raise it and typically tries for another baby once that first baby can walk. If there are no other females or he does not have sufficient resources, he will mate with his initial partner..
This theory, created by many and condensed severely by me, explains the birth of monogamy :P Remember, the worst thing that could happen in this situation would be for his partner to be cuckolded (mate with another man). In society, to prevent cuckolding to the best of everyones ability, we created monogamy :p
So, this isn't NATURE rooted so much in biology as it is BEHAVIOR that resulted from nature.0
Some guys are like that but some do also crave companionship, they desire love just as much as they desire sex. Sex is a part of a healthy relationship, but its like icing on a cake, it shouldn't be the foundation of the relationship. It's just a matter of finding one of those men who have honorable intentions and want the same thing that you want.0
LMAO! Too funny.
Don't know if there's any truth to this because I've only been used for sex once and it SHALL remain that way... I'm hoping? so as to not get preggers or have an std/sti?0
I love that my boyfriend is not looking for sex and he just wants to be with me because he likes having a emotional connection.0
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