I've been seeing him for over a year and he was normal when we were first going out but then started slowly pulling away from me and now he thinks he can talk to me whenever it suits him best. He won't go out of his way to even try to be with me anymore I'm so frustrated! The relationship hasn't even progressed further in this span..if anything I think that it has slowly went down! Is he a player or something?
GRR I'm frustrated dating this guy! Need help!
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not sure if he's a player but I can tell you he's definitely not 100% invested in the relationship. either it's not that serious for him or he's trying to get out and ignoring you so that you'll get the hint and break up with him (i've had guys do that to me before, it sucks). either way you're not getting what you deserve.
if you really want to keep this guy around though, then I would suggest doing the same thing he's doing - pull away and only talk to him every now and then. let him see what it feels like. maybe he feels suffocated and just wants some space. he'll either realize that he misses you and come back, trying to get your attention again, or you'll hear even less from him, in which case it's a HUGE sign you should break up. I know it's hard after a year but I think you should move on and find someone who actually wants to spend time with you.0
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