we have been together for 2 years now and we love each other A LOT.. we had our ups and downs and things are going well now I suppose.. but lately he never calls and the last time he texted me by him self (not replying on a text) is like months ago I can't even remember when ! its really really bothering me and I talked to him about it and he was like really your happiness is based on a text or a phone call.. honestly it is ! cause its shows me that he cares and he's thinking about me through his day
what do you guys think?
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He's having a hard time understanding how important constant communication is to girls. Just like how girls have a very very hard time understanding how little communcation means to us. How we can go for days or even weeks, without letting it bother us at all.
I think it would be unfair for you to make *all* the compromises and learning to understand and accept the guys level of communication. He should at least meet you half-way.
Try to have a rational discussion with him at some point, and explain to him that it's not just you. That all girls have this need for constant lines of communcation with the people they care about. Try to explain that even when he's dating women in the future, this will always be true. And it's something that, as a guy, he needs to learn about and adapt to.
He might get a little freaked out if you talk so easily about people he might date in the future, but it will also show him that you're dealing with a certain maturity in the subject. That you're not just making sh*t up as a needy little girl.0
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