I been talking to this online women for a year now.. I really like her but I never saw her in person because I moved before I could see her..at first she didn't want to see me untill she got to know me and after she did I had to move. cause at first when I was their we would talk about us hanging out and she wouldn't care if we drink and I asked her could I give her a foot rub and she said sure.. well we talk about being together since there distance and we chat on Facebook alot.. she is 25 and not in school but she works..We talk about me coming to see her.. she tells me that she would pay for the hotel and pick me up from the airport as well. and she tells me if everything goes well then she would come fly and see me... but the thing is I want a relationship with her not a friends with benefits type thing. cause the hotel thing got me thinking cause she wants to get a one bedroom and stay with me for that weekend. Do you people think she wants a relationship with me or doesn't she wants to have sex since she wants a hotel
- Is she asking for sex without tell me since their will be one bedroom hotelVote A
- She doesn't want sexVote B
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i think your question should have been " does she want a relationship" and then the answer would be " maybe"
whether she wants to have a relationship or not, you know what a "one bed room for you 2 to stay" means.
and about the relationship: I don't know where she is from or how are her family restrictions, or how far you are from her. but is she that lonely...that spent years chatting with you and now wants you to fly all the way back to her city just for you to become her friend with benefit?
my guess is that she could easily find that option in her city and no need to spend that much of time to get into knowing that guy! so probably she wants to see how things will go and if its possible to have a serious relationship with you.
but for sure, you need to speak with her and clarify things between you before you take any action or as you are worried, mess it up!
Good luck :)0