I'm kinda seeing this guy right now and I asked him what he wants out of this relationship ( as for as just being friends or dating and such) and he tells me that he really just wants to date and when I asked him how come he told me that his last girlfriend cheated on him for a long time and since then he's been in more of the dating scene than being in a relationship. I know what being cheated on feels like but this was over a year ago for him. Does he just wanna date or is he really still scared over his last gf?
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I wrote a sociology thesis about this last semester.
In a poll, 4 out of 5 guys who have been severly wronged by a girl in the past are more likely to do physical damage to themselves within two to three weeks of the incident(s). In the months following the incident(s) 3 of 5 will undergo a lot of self reevaluation, ie try to boost thier ego, and one of 5 will just let it go. There's also something about all 5 will suffer a slight amount of emotional stress and thier self-confidence will drop by nearly half dependent upon the incident(s).1