i went out with a guy I met online. I met him for 30mins during lunch. we walked around and chatted. then he kissed me which was nice. he offered to drop me off and I said ok. we made out some more in the car. while making out he tried to touch me in my private place and I stopped him. he also tried to lead my hand and touch him in his private place and I stopped him. I think this was inappropriate touching on 1st meeting. after two weeks of no contact. he emails me and He asked me out again. should I go out with him or think he is a perv and forget it. I never dated with online guys and this is new for me. is this appropriate behavior?
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This is not appropriate behavior. If you told him you were uncomfortable and he still tried to push you then he doesn't really respect your boundaries. If you want to go out with him again, then go somewhere public and don't be alone with him. If he keeps pushing you to go somewhere private tell him you're not ready or that you don't want to. If at anytime you feel uncomfortable it is your right to say no. Any guy worth your time will not push you to do something you don't want to do. I mean unless you were having sexual conversations with him then that is one thing, and maybe where he got the idea. However, if it came out of nowhere for him to try to touch you then he's a bit of creep. Hope that helps.0