I.m christian and I am saving myself for marriage. I know its not really common to do that anymore, but I want to be a virgin on my wedding night and only be with my husband. So guys, would you date/marry a religious girl with these views if it meant you had to wait for all the sexual stuff?
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I'm going to drop you this gem of advice that a Christian friend's parents shared with her.
Make sure you are physically compatible with the man before you marry him. That doesn't mean you need to have sex, just make sure in your own way that there is the physical chemistry there, because otherwise, you'll both be miserable as hell.
Sex is an important part of relationships - it's not just about making babies.
And, yes, there are guys out there who have the same values and views that you do, even if it isn't based upon religion. Don't let anyone rush you, don't let anyone push you. Your values are yours, they are not unreasonable, you have a right to have them, and you have the right to expect someone to respect you and your values if he wants to be in a relationship with you.
Personally, I never wanted to wait that long, but I'm definitely glad I waited until I found someone who 1) truly cares about me and 2) knows what he's doing.2