We're 19. Texting him, I asked if he's free tomorrow. He said no (he works) and won't be able to hang out for a while and then he told me why he's been busy (two jobs and band practice).
Was that just his way of telling me to go away?
If it matters, the last time we hung out he told me he liked me and wanted to hang out again but that was like a month ago.
Do you think he just said that so I would stop asking to hang out?
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A month is just too long, hate to say it but it looks like he's not that bothered any more, in my opinion, yeah, he may be busy but if he really liked you that much, he would of made some time for you, even if it was just a few hours every here and there. It's probably better that he's done this now, imagine you'd got in a relationship and then suddenly he was always busy, it would be horrible so it's definitely better than this happened sooner rather than later.
Also, as for his replies to your offer to hang out, if he wanted to hang out, he'd say he was sorry then try and work out a way to see you for a bit or arrange a later date when he will be free.
Maybe he's not interested..maybe he is interested but realistically just doesn't have the time for you, who knows but my best advice to you here is to give up on him, if you're not important to him, then don't make him important to you. There is somewhere out there who will give you the time you deserve rather than waiting on a guy who is all over the place.0