Or should I keep it to myself? I've been "seeing" this guy for about a month...and I think it may get to that point soon...we've just hugged a lot...he knows that I'm a virgin, too, though.
Also...I was thinking about mailing him a cuddle buddy application:
To sort of move things along...I want physical contact, because I think it's therapeutic (although I haven't really had any before)...but I don't want him to think I want sex...it would take a long time before I'd feel comfortable with that...I just want to make sure he is the right person, and not rush it...
So, I know this is more like two questions, but any help would be appreciated...
Oh, and this may be pathetic...but I'm in my late twenties...
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You don't have to tell him anymore than he really needs to know, until you feel you want to. It's not going to scare him off and if anything he'll feel proud.
Not everyone can have the same amount of experience as everyone else, just relax and let things happen. If you have an opportunity to hug, do so, if you;re close and looking in his eyes get closer to his face. but be absolutely sure it's not in a time and place that makes him think he's going to get more than that.
The application is a cute idea by the way. XD0