Should I reply to my ex girlfriend's texts?

my ex girlfriend keep telling me she wants to be friends she know I wanna be in relationship with her again I want to move on and forget her because there's no hope I guess... it's been 2 years but she still text me and texts more often than friends do...do I need your help people please I want her back but I'm ready to move on at the same time because these texts not going anywhere should I keep up with her texts or what to do?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • NO! Moving on is just that, moving on. She is stringing you along and you are allowing it to happen. You are in a relationship without actually being in a relationship. In other words, she gets benefits but you don't. This is not what you want, so you should cut her out of your life. She KNOWS she can have you when she wants. While you reply to her, she is laughing her ass off.

    When stuff like this is done by girls here's what's going on. She is having you on her terms. She is preventing you from moving on to someone else that will appreciate you. She gets everything she wants without committing to you. This is the friend zone! The only way out of it is to STOP BEING HER FRIEND. You are helping her "swim to shore" when you have to swim for yourself and guess what, you are drowning and she doesn't care.

    Is she going to help you find a woman to be with? No, that's what real friends do. Friends do more than just text. By the way. Girls will have you like this while they are giving what you want to other guys, it's what they do. Stop communication with her. Don't tell her anything, just stop. This is a conflict of interest and it needs to end. Contrary to what many guys believe. Being "friends" with an ex is not an honor, it's an insult. The friendship ended when you got together. Move on.

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What Girls Said 4

  • Do you think that you'll get over her if you're friends and if you text often? If you do, I don't see any problem in keeping in touch with her and texting. But if you don't, then I think it's the best to tell her you're not ready for friendship yet and that you need some more time apart.

    Just follow what you feel. If you'll get over her while you can be friends and if YOU want that too, go for it! But if you don't want it, just tell her. She has to respect your feelings and give you a bit more time and space.

    Good luck!

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  • Sounds like she's stringing you along. Just ignore her and delete her number. But maybe before you do, send her one last message saying something like "You don't want to be with me, and I need to move on. I can not be just friends with you, please stop texting me"

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  • stay friends don't delete her your wil regret that

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  • If you are ready to move on and get on with your life, then I would say just not text her and make sure that you take care of yourself.

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What Guys Said 5

  • Start replyhing to them. She needs you to work thourgh her feelings, and if you reply, you can convince her that getting back together isn't a good idea. She will come to realize it after she has talked back and forth.

    If you don't reply, her feelings will just fester and maybe even get stronger. She's living some sort of fantasy right now; give her an antidote of reality.

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  • She is playing reindeer games with you with this "let's be friends" bullsh*t. As I'm sure you understand, it would be painful to remain friends with her because you'll always be reminded of the intimate relationship you had with her before. It will never be the same as it was.

    I say continue to ignore her and just move on, that's the best bet for you right now.

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  • If you're smart you'll stay away.

    But then again, most people aren't smart.

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  • You should just see her as friends with benefits

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  • Don't do in the end you'll suffer, I did.

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