my ex girlfriend keep telling me she wants to be friends she know I wanna be in relationship with her again I want to move on and forget her because there's no hope I guess... it's been 2 years but she still text me and texts more often than friends do...do I need your help people please I want her back but I'm ready to move on at the same time because these texts not going anywhere should I keep up with her texts or what to do?
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NO! Moving on is just that, moving on. She is stringing you along and you are allowing it to happen. You are in a relationship without actually being in a relationship. In other words, she gets benefits but you don't. This is not what you want, so you should cut her out of your life. She KNOWS she can have you when she wants. While you reply to her, she is laughing her ass off.
When stuff like this is done by girls here's what's going on. She is having you on her terms. She is preventing you from moving on to someone else that will appreciate you. She gets everything she wants without committing to you. This is the friend zone! The only way out of it is to STOP BEING HER FRIEND. You are helping her "swim to shore" when you have to swim for yourself and guess what, you are drowning and she doesn't care.
Is she going to help you find a woman to be with? No, that's what real friends do. Friends do more than just text. By the way. Girls will have you like this while they are giving what you want to other guys, it's what they do. Stop communication with her. Don't tell her anything, just stop. This is a conflict of interest and it needs to end. Contrary to what many guys believe. Being "friends" with an ex is not an honor, it's an insult. The friendship ended when you got together. Move on.1