I'm 25 and single... I been single all my life I've never dated or kissed a girl in my life because I've always been shy due to my insecurities... I met this girl where I work at and she's super nice to me and seems like she likes me but today she told me she is divorced and has 2 kids...
i like her and would love to get to know her but at the same time I'm scared because I don't make a lot of money in my job and I don't know what she will expect of me and also if I happen to fall in love with her I don't know what will happen and the fact that she is an experienced woman in life and I've never been in love scares me.
Should I go for it?
how should I ask her for her number?
i asked her for her Facebook account but I was too shy to ask her for her number.. -_-;
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I'm divorced, and have one child. This is purely my own perspective and personal opinion, but when I'm dating, I'm not looking for a guy to take care of my and my child. That's my job. The money he makes isn't important, however his sense of personal responsibility and his goals are. Maybe you're working at McDonald's making minimum wage.. not really an issue to me, but if you're perfectly content to keep working at McDonald's making minimum wage for the rest of your life with no desire to do better for yourself, that's an issue.
I don't expect anything from a guy I've just started to date. Other than to treat me the way he wants me to treat him. It would be a while before my kid even made an appearance in front of him, so those are things that come with time. I know it seems a bit scary if you don't feel like you have much experience as she does when it comes to love, and life, but you'd never know what the outcome is if you keep letting that hold you back, because most girls your age are going to have been in love at least once.
If you're feeling it, go for it. If you're hesitant because of her situation, wait a bit.. see if you become more comfortable. Just ask if you can have her number so you can text her somtime.1