I'll get right to the point. There is this girl that I'm interested in, but I don't think she would date me because I've never had sex. She mentioned something about her possibly being my first if we dated and not liking the pressure that comes with that. How do I make myself seem more sexually desirable to this woman?
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Funny how women want non-virgins because they feel like there is too much pressure in pleasing them, and men want virgins so that there is nothing to compare them to...
Anyway, you're assuming. If you like her, and she likes you, virginity really shouldn't be an issue. If it ever comes up let her know that just because you're a virgin doesn't mean you're incompetent, and that with a bit of practice and patience you'd become a pro. Virginity doesn't matter either way - it's about someone's willingness to learn their partners body and how to please them as well as receive pleasure.2