I think it's pretty much impossible for guys or anyone to be 100% confident and have absolutely no insecurities. I know girls love confident guys, but still. I think confident people have insecurities here and there.
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A confident guy isn't immune from insecurities. But he knows how to deal with them. Even if he finds it hard to deal with them. He knows he can.
That's the difference.
Take for example, the guys you see on here worrying about the size of their d***. My god, it's like an epidemic. None of those guys are confident.
Here's how you know - First, girls are blue in the face saying that size is not as important to them as guys think. A guy who has confidence in himself, even if he has issues with his manhood, is going to hear that and take it on board.
Second, he's going to know there's other ways around having a shorter member. Things he can do. Like learn to eat p**** like a champ. Like bring in toys into the bedroom. Like learning how to do foreplay better than his peers. Like working on his stamina.
A guy with confidence sees a problem (his insecurities) and knows he can fix them.
A guy with no confidence, sees problems where there are none, and spends all day bitching about them and doing nothing to solve them, *because* *he* *thinks* *there's* *nothing* *he* *can* *do*.
To sum up ; Confident guys can have insecurities. They just aren't crippled by them. And in my experience, girls don't have a problem when a guy confesses those insecurities, and maybe gets their opinion on how best to tackle them. It makes the girl feel like he's really opening up to her, and trusts her.
As opposed to suckling on her boob like a child, crying about his problems and hoping his mommy surrogate will make it all better.0