I am a 22 year old female and I am still living with my parents who are very old fashioned. I met this guy (29) and we really hit off and started dating right away. There was a real connection with us and after a month I truly felt I was in love with him. However, he decided to ignore me for about three weeks. I mean I begged him to answer me and he wouldn't. But finally he called and told me that he was sorry for what he did and that he wanted to work it out. Anyway he told me the reason he ignored me was because I wasn't allowed to stay by his house and he wanted to be with a woman not a girl. He told me that I needed to take control of my life instead of letting my parents control me. So I asked him to give me time to talk to my parents about it and he agreed. That lasted all of two days before he gave up and once again told me I needed to grow up and I agreed with him but he didn't understand how my parents were and that I have no choice because I live with them. What was I supposed to do? So I guess my question is if he is right? Should I just ignore my parents wishes. He was my first real relationship and I'm devastated about it and I'm afraid that the next guy is going to feel the same way. So is not being able to sleep by your guys house really that big of a deal? We used to spend the entire day together and I would leave his house at about 2 in the morning. I don't want this to always be a problem with guys.
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In my opinion I think you should forget about that old guy and find someone you're more compatible with. Someone who share similar thoughts, respects you, understands you, and not treat you like trash, because ignoring you for three straight weeks is disrespectful. Calling you imature because you listen to your parents. What he wants is a puppet of his own, not a woman. We already gave you our opinions, now it's your decision if you want to take it or not.2