I was just always tought that if I want a man to really fall for me and care about me, then I should not give up my goods so soon. If he is only after sex then he will leave and if he really wants to know me then he can wait.
This question is for guys too. Have you ever been in a relationship with a woman who started out as just sex? Is that even possible? Does it work out? Do you just loos interest in the girl? Why do you loose interest?
I'm just really curious because I know a guy who says he wants a relationship and can tell ya all the things hewants in a relationship but his way of getting to know a girls personality (I guess) is to try and get her in bed instead of going on a date (whch does not make sense to me lol)
I also know a girl who says she does not want a relatonship but yet she had feelings for her friend-with-benifits
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It happens. It doesn't always work but it happens. I was in a three (plus) year relationship with a girl I had sex with on the first night, and currently I am in a relationship with a girl for over five years, and I had sex with her before we got together.
Now to answer your other questions.
"Have you ever been in a relationship with a woman who started out as just sex?"
Yes. I just told you about two of them.
"Is that even possible?"
Yep. See above.
"Does it work out?"
Sometimes, but not always.
"Do you just lose interest in the girl?"
Nope. That's not the kind of guy I am.
"Why do you lose interest?"
As for your guy. I don't quite get him really, because that's not how I work. I'm never aiming for just sex, it just kinda happens. the whole thing about chemistry and things being really good, and one thing leading to another. That's what I mean. As for your guy,I can only guess. Like maybe he's trying to form a physical bond by having sex with these girls. Maybe also seeing if the sex is compatible, and wants to get it all out of the way in the beginning. Maybe figures he'd be able to get a more honest conversation after the sex, when you're all naked or something. Hell I don't know. I think maybe you should ask him what his thought process is on that, because it really doesn't entirely make sense to me either.
Now about your girl with the feelings for her friends with benefits. I guess she's got feelings for him and doesn't want a relationship because she's afraid of getting hurt, or rejected. Maybe not even that. Maybe she knows it's all wrong between him and her, but she just has feelings for him because of that physical connection. I don't know. I don't know either of them or their situations.
So did this help at all?0