It seems like on average girls end up with guys that are douche bags to them, perhaps because they are attracted to this type of guy?
On the other hand, most guys prefer nicer girls don't you think and end up with girls that they're happy with more often?
feel free to disagree but what do you think?
- Girls are terrible at choosing partnersVote A
- Girls are good at choosing partnersVote B
- Very subjectiveVote C
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We don't really choose them, you know. If we feel something for someone, our mind can tell us to get away from him because he's a waste of time, will hurt us and he's a jerk, but our hearts can say: whatever, I'll just develop feelings for him anyway!
So then we're pretty much screwed. Either we follow our hearts and try a relationship, or we follow our minds and ignore our feelings. We don't choose who we get feelings for. There are a lot of explanations on why women choose a**holes and jerks, but I don't know which one is true.
It has to do with our selfesteem, with what we find attractive, with what we've all been through, ...
I don't know, but my point is that women (and men) don't really get a lot of choices in that area, either you feel something or you don't, and if you feel something you can choose what you'll do with those feelings, ignore or embrace them.
But if you take all this not into account, I can't speak for my entire gender, but yes, I make superbad decisions on possible boyfriends.1