Is it asking too much for guys?

Guys, when a girl to whom you have discussed about getting married with her in the future asks you to provide a house before marriage... what do you think about it? do you think the girl asks a lot from you? The girl doesn't ask a big luxurious house, it is enough to have a house which they can call home sweet home later. For her, house is a primary need to build a family. Please leave comments


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  • So long as it is asking, not demanding, then I don't think it's a big deal.

    The guy (if he's a guy at all) should already have been thinking along those lines. Providing a house is his responsibility. (Making it a home, is hers).

    This would be even more true if there was a child involved.

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    • how far the girl should involve herself in planning their future house?

    • That depends on the couple. But I'd say she should be totally involved in planning.

    • thank for sharing opinion

What Guys Said 6

  • The most important is the feelings each other

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  • Is it crazy if I plan on living in condo's for awhile while I'm young and don't want a house? Don't want the rural suburb look coming into my life.

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  • A litlle all my married siblings moved into an apartment for the first few years than got a house. If he has the money than he would be smart to do it on his part, but I dnt think you should request it

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  • That should actually be a man's responsibility -before- asking for marriage.

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    • do you think it is OK for the girl to ask the guy about it? or do you have any suggestion?

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    • It really depends on the guy's situation. If he's having financial problems then you would need to help him financially. If it's commitment problems (buying a house is a HUGE commitment) then he would need help deciding and so on. Basically supporting him.

    • thanks for sharing opinion

  • Yes it is. I'm planning on building my own house in the future so there's no way I'm going to buy one before I get married, renting is always a legit option

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  • id be like go fck yourself... and leave

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