Okay so there's this guy that used to go to our school but just moved this year and is coming back next year. He's older than me so I knew of him but he didn't know me or anything. But he's friends with a lot of the same guys I'm friends with. So we started talking on FB yesterday and then texted all day yesterday and mostly today. And I don't date, I'm too focused on school and grades to date. So get this...
Him: When can we hang out so this relationship can start? Lol
Me: We should hang out but I really don't date, ask anyone.
Me: Hah, will you still talk to me though? ):
And he didn't respond. I know he got it though. I feel really bad but I just don't date and I wanted to be straight up from the beginning as to not have an issue in the future.
We really clicked though and id still really like talking to him... But idk.
What should I do? We've only talked for two days but I kinda like this kid but I just don't date. I don't like the High School drama that goes along with it.
What should I do?
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Well you made your decision, he made his. He wanted a relationship, you didn't, end of story. The part where you tell him "hah, will you still talk to me though? ):"
must have stung bad for him. Because not only you tell him you don't want a relationship with him, but then you laugh, and then somehow try to make him feel bad if he were to stop talking to you nonetheless, that's a big red flag for any guy.
Not only you have no clue how you made him feel, but the only person you thought about was yourself because you like having his attention and him talking to you...0