I answered a question about "keeping your options open" while dating...and to be frank the asker got offensive towards the responses the guy had for her:
My question to you is...do you think it is "out of bounds" to ask your date on the FIRST date if he / she is into seeing multiple ppl, so you know where you stand?
Or should you wait until a later date (2nd, 3rd, etc.) to ask that question?
Why did you think and vote the way that you do?
Elaborate as much as you like on this topic.
- When said correctly (timing, word choice), this is OK to ask on a first date57% (4)40% (2)50% (6)Vote
- This should never be asked on a first date43% (3)60% (3)50% (6)Vote
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Yes. So then I don't have to waste my time on them. I don't want to be someone's "option". I'd rather them just go have their little turn taking with a group of people that doesn't involve me.1