I'm good looking, very athletic, musical, and I'm very bright with a picto memory ( like photographic but only for images ). I'm only 21 but I'm wealthy with nice cars and dress well. I'm extremely confident, my friends mom said I'm to confident. The thing is I'm not a player I would rather a sweet girl but they seem to be nervous around me. My ex told me she used to be very intimidated by me bef I asked her out. Would you girls be intimidated? If so how do I change that
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Just a few questions to pose and maybe this will help? Do you dress flashy with designer clothes, a very expensive watch or jewelry while driving a luxury car we only see in magazines? Are you 'confident' or 'cocky' because there is a difference. If you dress flashy, then I'd recommend that you shy away from that. The car may be an issue if all of the vehicles in your home are luxury. Concerning your confidence, try not to boast about what you have and your abilities. You can smile, be outgoing and slowly let your personality come alive over time. I'd say the same for your wealth. When you meet a girl with potential, don't bring her to expensive or exclusive restaurants at the start. Keep things on the down low and build.
When you do things in moderation and slowly then you won't be as intimidating to females. Guys like you can be intimidating. Why? Because, there is a tendency that a girl needs to have certain attributes or look a certain way. I know it's stereotypical but it's really true. I met some very wealthy guys at a kegger. As soon as they found out I didn't go to the same snobby ass college they did, they dismissed me. I didn't need that kind of treatment. My family isn't rich but we are all well educated and do well on our own.
In addition, this might also guide you with discerning from females truly interested in you as a man and not your wallet. Be leery of those kind of girls. They will tell you whatever you want to hear, cry they need money or to go shopping, they will bleed you dry and then disappear.0