This guy I like & I have been flirting with each other for already a month. He texts me almost every day & tells me sweet things, like calling me "beautiful" but the problem is that... I just found out he has a girlfriend (my cousin told me). And now I feel so hurt. I feel like I'm just being used & I'm not sure if I should keep txting him..:(
Why would some guys flirt with girls even if they have a girlfriend already? Is it cause he doesn't love her enough or cause he just wants attention (so that he can feel better about himself)?
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I don't know what his reasons are, but if he's anything like me, he's probably a natural flirt. Like this is his innate mode. For me I flirt with damn near everyone without thinking about it. If I'm not flirting, it's generally because my brain is very consciously putting in an effort to NOT flirt. It's just who I am. It's just the way I am. There's generally no real intent behind it, it's just something I do as naturally as breathing. Or say talking. Yeah talking seems more accurate.
If it bothers you so much, then just say "don't you have a girlfriend? Why are you flirting with me so much." and if he has no reason and he doesn't stop, either break off all contact, or just write it off as nothing, because it probably is. Write it off as nothing until he actually tries something physical. Because THEN you have full reason to be ticked off. Also, if he denies having a girlfriend, you may wanna break off contact then too.
Anyway I hope this helped you out somehow. Maybe gave some insight or suggestion on what to do. Whatever it is, it's up to you.