For about a year and a half, I had been having sex with this guy. We never dated but neither of us were seeing anyone else. He always treated me so horribly. For example, one time I freaked out and I texted him and asked him if he could get me the morning after pill and he ignored me. He was always doing stuff like that, but still, every week, he would ask for sex and I would say yes.
Then in January, he left for basic training for the air force and he never said goodbye. Two months later when he got out of training, he texted me, saying he missed me and he was being so nice. I live in Maryland and he's been in tech school in Texas for three months and he comes home in a couple more months. We kept talking and we would send each other pictures and stuff.
Then he completely lost interest. I even sent him a picture and he replied saying "who is this?". Now if I try to text him, he either just ignores me or tells me to leave him alone and he says he doesn't care about me anymore. He won't give me any kind of an explanation. What would make him completely change his mind like that?
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Graduated from basic training? I hate to say it, but he's going to be branching out and meeting a lot of new people. Between his technical school and when he hits the fleet, he's going to be A) Busy and B) wanting to take advantage of all the recreations and amenities the United States Air Force offers to its Active duty air force. When I went to basic training USMC, all we dreamed about was graduating and moving on (that's all that really kept us motivating)..
You guys were never dating officially, he treated you like crap, forget him. bottom line.3