I've been dating this guy for almost two months and he tells me that he really loves me. Although, he never asks me to hang out with him even when he's being the third wheel for his best friend. The only time he ever wants to hang out is when we can have sex. On the other hand, I've been talking and sort of hanging out with my ex boyfriend. The first boy I've ever loved, and still do love. He has a girlfriend and I have a boyfriend so we have to hide it from everyone.. He hurt me before but I honestly don't think I can live without him.. What do I do?
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the guy you're currently dating - do you like him, or is he just a time-filler until you get back with your ex? it's hard to tell from what you've said whether he really likes you or just wants sex, but if he's honest when he says he loves you, you shouldn't string him along if you don't feel the same way.
your ex boyfriend - if he was your first love, it's going to hurt. some people say that you never truly stop having feelings for them. however, this is not a good reason to date them. he's in a relationship and so is out-of-bounds, and he's hurt you before. don't do anything with this guy until he's single - it sounds like he's trying to "have his cake and eat it" (ie, have you both), and you're the one who will come out looking the worst when the secret is revealed.
my advice? neither. move on, and then someone you can love completely with no complications.0