So I've been single for about 5 years now, and have never had any interest in a girl since my last girlfriend until I started talking to this one regularly. She is so amazing, everything I look for in a woman and more. Buuut... She lives in a different state. I've known her for just about 10 yeas, and in the last year or so we've been talking on a regular basis. We've only gotten into a couple of arguments, which only lasted about 30 minutes tops, which, to me, is phenomenal. I have always been the one to text first, but if I didn't text then she would text me within 24 hours. I've confessed my love for her, and she says she loves me too. Most of her friends are guys, and she has been hanging out with them more lately which is making me go crazy. It's been 5 days since we've talked, and the last thing we talked about was her going to go hang out with some friends and her ex. I got kind of upset when she told me she was hanging out with him because he loves her. She says she doesn't feel anything for him, and I believe her 100%, but I'm just a jealous person. we didn't get into an argument or anything, but I started sending short responses and she stopped replying. Its been 5 days since we've talked and she doesn't say "i love you too" when I tell her I love her. I guess I'm just wondering if she really loves me, and why she won't text me first anymore.
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She won't text you first because it is the girl code lol in other words, girls want to be chased so you should text her first. In terms of whether she loves you, I think she does! But jealousy can ruin a relationship so just deal w that and you two will be fine! :)0