I always wondered why guys never text girls first. When I know that a guy likes me and I am sure he want to text me why is it that guys don't? Are you all thinking what I'm thinking? I try not to or to do it too much because I don't want him to think that I'm going to turn out to be a clingy person. I like this guy and I text him but its usually short and simple and it leads to a more texts and sometimes not but its good to get a reply back from him. I'm just wondering guys...why you don't text first?
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I do text first; often out of frustration.
I'm afraid of being accused of "stalking" her if I send even one message one time. Because there are girls out there who are that vindictive, and will come after me with K9 units for simply asking: "Hi. How's your week going?"
Yes, I know that sounds paranoid. But you never lived in Big Rapids. I have. That town is insane - everyone hates everyone.
I want to be texted first, so I know she's actually interested in a conversation with me before I proceed to say anything that could be even remotely spun and used against me. I have trust issues, I'll admit.2