I actually met this guy on a different dating site but he happened to mention that he was on this other dating site so I anonymously signed up for it (this was initially when we met about 8 months ago , and we both didn't think we'd end up liking each other) and as I know its wrong to snoop around, back then we weren't serious and I was just doing it for the heck of it... but over the past 2 months he has gotten a lot more serious and calls me his girlfriend, says that he cares about me a lot which I believe he does since his behavior has changed a lot (for the better) since we initially met (which was about 8 months ago) ... I still noticed he has been on the site all along but rarely logs on to it and whenever I ask him if he is looking for something else he says no. we are so comfortable with each other at this point that I believe him that he isn't looking for anyone else . I noticed he was inactive on that site for over a month but then noticed he logged on yesterday afternoon, and I was in fact with him the night before until yesterday morning. When I saw this , my emotions jumped to different conclusions and I started to cry about it (also might be part of the fact , its that time of the month - lol) but I really felt confused by this. I trust his words and I can feel he has become a lot closer to me but why is he still on a dating site?
Can any of the guys here give me some perspective, please?
All that jumping to conclusions, when it was just as simple as 1,2,3 :)