I'm talking about the window of opportunity a guy that fancies you or that you like has. I can understand you losing potential feelings for a guy/crush that hasn't asked you out as yet, but what I want to know is do those feelingsyou have for them completely go away and if circumstances were to change, why would they never come back?
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If I'm understanding what you're saying... the window closes when I believe they don't understand me or even have a general understanding of the things I believe. Also if they don't share similar values I know I can't get along with them in a close relationship. Basically, given the situation, if I don't feel like the other person understands what I'm all about, I doubt they would a few years later so the window closes.
I still remember things about them that I liked or admired but any desire for a proper relationship is gone. It doesn't mean I never entertain the what if in my head though... of course only while I'm single.0