What are some possible reasons why a guy would be aloof, hang out with you for a while then disappear for a couple weeks, talk to you for a long time in person one day and then not return your texts. he has made it clear that he's not into relationships right now. what would be some reasons for a guy to feel this way?
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It's like asking why do girls want them?
Girls get more out of them, basically.
And the stuff that girls get out of them, guys don't. Or don't want that stuff.
So in a nutshell, there's nothing in it for us.
Like, when a girl says "But don't you want someone there for you, all the time, no matter what?" as if it's the most obvious thing in the world, the guy answers "No!" because for him what really matters is time to be alone with himself.
Girls are not guys. We want and need different things.1