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My girlfriend doesn't text me as much anymore?

Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 2 weeks now, not much. Well she always texted me first everyday and we would text the whole day,she be... Show More

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  • girls LOVE it when you text them first. in fact, she could be pulling back to see if you'll initiate anything. yes, you texted her first for the first time, but it wasn't to say something sweet like "good morning" or "how's your day" it was about a problem. I know this sounds bad, but girls expect guys to show interest first, and from what it sounds like, she's been showing a lot of interest but in a girl's mind when she's always initiating the text or the call it feels like you're not as interested in her as she is in you. step up to the plate and start texting her randomly to say sweet things or just to let her know she's on your mind. you have to show interest too, or else she's just going to assume that you're not as interested and move on.

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  • Its probably not something big, I've noticed that as relationships go on, you text less. And she's probably been busy during summer or just doesn't want to stay up that late anymore. And phone and internet takes on relationships are different, if you haven't seen her for... wait. You've been going out for 2 weeks and you haven't seen her in 2 weeks? Anyway, the person starts to be seperated from them to their phone. Just chill and when you see her it will be all right

  • Lol I went through the same thing except we would talk on the phone from 7-4ish in the morning on a school night then be at school together ! I started not texting back and talking of the phone because I didn't want to bore him, I didn't want to burn it out, but I already had! keep the texts short and sweet and build the excitement for when you do see each other :) I didn't always have the most interesting things to say or sometimes I would just be doing the same thing I was doing when he just asked in a text an hour ago

  • She could just be busy. Its happened to me before early in a relationship, I've gotten busy. And sadly you could be boring her but good luck I'm not sure

  • GIrls like when you text them first. When they have to text the guy first they think that they are bugging the guy and don't want him to withdraw from them. They think they are being needy or clingy so probably stop and want the guy to make the move. I love it when the guy takes the initiative and pursues me cause it makes me feel wanted. If I have to text him first then I kind of start losing interest because I feel he isn't returning the interest back to me. Guy's shouldn't play hard to get cause girls don't go with that mind game. A guy plays hard to get with me and I'm out of there looking for a guy who can step up to the plate and be a man.

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