Girls, I need your input in this please. I have a female friend (we have known each other for years but only close for the last 5) and I am starting to fall for her. The problem is I'm so sure she doesn't feel the same with the things she has said.
Now I have been told by many women (friends and random ladies) that I'm a good looking or cute guy and have my previous girlfriends have found me nice looking. I'm no way shallow and personally I don't think I'm anything special and I respect and care for many people. Her last 3 boyfriends this year have been very below average looking (I hate to use the word ugly as no one is ugly unless they have a rotten personality). So what's wrong with me? She loves my company, we see each other often, I look after her, I care for her so much, I have treated her better than any guy she has ever dates. We give each other space so I never suffocate her, basically I have only upset her once (a recent argument but we are back on the mend and I'm taking her out this week). So why wouldn't she go for me? It upsets me and I cannot concentrate on other women (even ones who are showing me interest). I just don't know where I'm going wrong, I'm now starting to doubt myself as a person too.
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well you say you are a good looking nice guy and she loves spending time with you and you treat her nicely, so I think you can see for yourself there is not a reason why she shouldn't like you. Maybe she just hadn't thought of you that way, which doesn't neseseraly mean she doesn't like you. I suggest you go kind of slow and soft with it.. start making compliments to her saying she's sexy and stuff like that, but don't go over the top, do it in a playful nice way and by the ways she reacts you will find out for sure how she she feels for you and still you won't be so upfront about it :)1