he is really distant, I know very little about him. he almost never talks about his feelings. now we are exclusive, he wanted that. but we Haven't met for 2 weeks, he told me because he has to prepare for his exam, but he had time for basketball and didn't study that much. he is handsome and cute and funny and everything I want. and he doesn't bring up sex, we have only kissed and nothing more. and our dates are about talking not kissing. why did he want to be exclusive with me if he is that distant?
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Well being distant is something a lot of guys go through at some point. Especially if the guy has trouble with women breaking his heart, or if he's had a rough life before. Sometimes it's hard to let someone in. Still that doesn't mean he doesn't like you, and sure he's been busy for a couple weeks, with things like school and basketball, because these things can eat up a lot of time. But again, it doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't like you. More likely it means two things. One: It means he has trust issues letting people in. (and) Two: It means he has very poor time management skills, and hasn't prioritized making time. Why did he want to be exclusive with you? Easy. He like you. He wants to date you, but hasn't had much time. As for his time management, that's something you can take care of now, but addressing this issue with him, as soon as possible, and telling him how important it is. The other stuff, like getting to know you, and letting you in, that might take time, and you may want to decide yourself if he's worth it. Your choice. Still, none of what you talked about means he doesn't like you. Not necessarily.3