Okay so I have this friend who has just gotten out of a relationship with a girl he was dating and lived with. They dated for 7 months. then Him and I started talking right at the last couple weeks of their relationship. We hung out once and had fun nice conversation. and then him and his girlfriend broke up.
(we still talked since we had hung out)
So last week after we still talked all the time. he came over and we watched movies and hung out, but it was a little more flirty fun he had his head on my knees and fell asleep.
Then my friend kaity and I hung out with him at the park. and we all had a blast. he was being nice and flirty with her and nice and firty with me,
but with me he would just want to touch me. like he would find some way to hold my hands (we made up a handshake) he would feel my arms to feel how cold I was and then wrapped his arms around me to keep me warm. then the 3 of us went in her car to watch a movie and he kept touching my face and playing with my hair.
then a few days ago He came over again to watch movies and he made me lay down next to him and cuddle the whole time. he fall asleep and didn't let me go. so I woke him up and took him to my room where we just went to bed. and he wouldn't let me go all night. when he had to get up for work. he tucked me into bed kissed my shoulder and said ill call you later okay sleep tight. and left.
he came over last night as well from the bars. and was all cuddly but then sat ontop of me and pinned me ( I think to try and enforce dominence because I said I would slap him) and we just wtched more movies and fell asleep
buuut he also comended on his ex gf's photo saying how pretty she is with her new bangs.
what do you think is going on in his mind about me?
like does he like me, am I just a rebound?
HEP ! :/
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He obviously enjoys your company very much but as the guy below has said, he does see you as emotional comfort from losing his girlfriend. He is missing her and sees you as a lovely girl in his life helping him overcome his loss. I'm not saying he is using you, he clearly does care for you so much, otherwise he would have cracked onto you a little bit more than what you have described. He values you in his life but you clearly give him emotional comfort (and some physical too) from his split from his ex. I would say I don't think he wants you as a girlfriend at the moment. And as already mentioned, you definitely do not want to be a rebound. Personally what I advise is be normal friends but limit certain things such as too much physical contact, make him aware without saying that you are his friend and will always be there for him, but not as a rebound.1