I generally reply to texts immediately after I get them, because I don't want to waste my own time or the other person's time. My sister told me that you seem desperate if you reply immediately, and you should wait a min or two. I think in a real convo, people would be talking back and forth without much pause, so why should you bother waiting a min to text back? Girls, if I were texting you, would I seem desperate?
Most Helpful Girl
No, you wouldn't seem desperate.. that's stupid. BUUUUUT, I think it's desperate if a person does sends like 2 texts asking why the person hasn't replied yet.
Person A "Hey"
Person B "Hey"
A "How was your day"
A "Are you busy?"
A "I think you are, I don't want to bother you"
A " You don't have to reply if you don't want"
30 min pass
A "I understand if you're busy"
A "I'll talk to you later"
A "Sorry for bothering you"0