I've been friends with benefits with a guy friend of mine for a while. We've both developed feelings for each other, I want a relationship but he doesn't - he keeps saying he's not ready and been badly hurt in the past. Is there anything I can I do to make him want more than just sex from me and what can I do to make him want a relationship with me? Please help.
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if he had feelings for you like he says then he would want to be with you. You can't make someone want to be with you if they don't want to. Its heartbreaking I know but the best thing to do is leave him alone so you can have time and space to get over him because he obviously doesn't want the same thing you want. He might have said he likes you because he doesn't want to mess up the benefits situation, but you have to go by his actions not his words. Don't allow yourself to be used by him in hopes of a relationship that may never happen.0