I've been seeing this guy for about a month, we're serious but he's heading to Vegas with the boys for a week and I said that he could have a hallpass on the condition that I don't hear about it later. I'm not the jealous type and I mean if I was going to Vegas with my friends who knows, right? Not that I'd go out of my way to sleep with other ppl, bbbbbut, more or less I was wondering if he would see this as a test or how should I come off to make him think I really don't care, cause realisticly I don't.
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If you are really serious about a person, there should be no desire to mess around when somewhere like Vegas. And I disagree with your "I don't care" approach. That will make him think he can get away with anything if you care so little, and that you aren't serious about your relationship going anywhere. If yall get serious, he may try to test you. As they say about teaching, always come in strong the first day because you can always loosen up. But you can't be loose in the beginning and try to be strict. Since you are so carefree at the ebginning, he will think it is strange if you start gettign jealous or anything if your relationship advances. So anyway, I say no do not give him a hall pass. There should be no question in your mind that he will be faithful to you.0