I am a pretty nice girl, it takes a lot to piss me off. At first I was nice to her, she ignored me with a nasty ass attitude. When my boyfriend and I are hanging out already made plans she calls last minute telling him he needs to watch his son. why doesn't she make arrangements ahead of time? For example , she is suppose to be going to bachelorette party tonight...she calls this morning ruining me and my man's plans saying he needs to watch his soon while she gets her nails done, etc.
Like what? she knew about this ahead of time, why didn't she arrange for this prior? And of course, since my guy wants to be a good dad he is pretty much her bitch.
He says I am the only girl he has had such strong feelings for...etc. was all excited about being with me, even wanted to introduce me to his son, however the mother had an issue with it. I understand her issue, maybe its too soon,...but I am sick and tired of her calling him last minute ruining our plans because she wants to go out...what about ME? ughh I am so not getting emotionally attached in this relationship...cause I am not sure its going to last long.. currently keeping my options open.
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A friend of mine is a single mom.
One day, the dude's replacement girlfriend tried to kidnap the baby. My friend was the one who went to jail; for punching that girl in the nose and breaking it.
Why the girl suffered no penalty for attempted kidnapping is beyond me. Had I been there, I would've protected the child and tried to stop things from happening before they got violent.
Your boyfriend's baby mama probably sees you as a threat to her possession of the child. You would do well to respect that. You're taking what she was once upon a time convinced was hers, her boyfriend. Who's to say the child won't be next? She sees you as a robber and a thief; so she'll instinctively treat you like a threat.
I would get out of that situation fast. If he's that willing to knock her up and then act like she's nothing to him; then the instant he learns you're pregnant, what's to stop him from doing the same thing to you? That man doesn't deserve the company of anything other than a rubber sex toy vagina from the adult gift store. And you know it.2