Seems to be the only way to actually get a girl is to move quickly to get her. If you just "talk" to her for weeks, or even days, then you have no hope. Recently, I've seen 2 of my classmates get girls...one day they're sitting next to her talking to her, and by the end of the week they're together. Those two guys aren't even good-looking, but they're muscley and stuff, and they got two great-looking girls. I'm not good-looking and I'm not muscley, so that counts against me. Still, I try to have confidence, but I guess I'm not very good at it.
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If you're talking about boring stuff of course they'll lose interest. Keep the conversation engaging and look for opportunity. Don't just stand by and have conversations over Facebook. That gets real old real fast. Get her going on dates and starting letting her know you're attracted but not just a horn dog.
Here are two universal truths: Women want to feel sexy and men want to feel strong.
If she feels attractive being around you she'll want to stick around. If she just feels like you're really nice but you never make a move.. she doesn't feel attractive and she only feels friendly.1