i was talking to this guy I met off line for a week every night we talk all night about everything we finally met he stayed for a while we met again the next day he stayed even longer we kissed but the third day I asked him to come over he told me he just want to be friends we never had sex it hurt when he said that because I really liked him so I said no we can't be friends I didn't really mean it what did I do wrong
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Im assuming you weren't what he expected. and I'm talking about how you looked.
You see I do internet dating that will lead to sex, why? It is more beneficial in a financial level to just meet up a girl you have met online, hit it and quit it (my car is good in gas, one full tank can take me 2 states away). Texting will lead to calling, lead to exchanging pics, lead to setup a time and place to meet, blah blah blah, and there is an invisible barrier that will hide your insecurities therefor making you open to the other person.
Compared to a bar scenario: If you think about it, how much do drinks cost these days? A LOT! Most men and women don't know how to flirt, they are insecure face to face, yata yata yata..
And I gotta admit, the female species are a the masters of illusion. Now why am I saying that? I have met up with PLENTY of girls that look hot in their pic, but in person, they are not what I expect. they are fat, ugly, disgusting, ect...
BUT in the end, sex feels the same.There's a reason why you can turn off the lights or dim it.0