Lets say they are in the city for up to 4 months.
Would you date a tourist or an international student?
Lets say they are in the city for up to 4 months.
Of course, if you've only just met the person, four months is an eternity, isn't it? You've no guarantee of a relationship lasting two months with someone who may be in the city for the next four years, and if they are someone you could conceivably see yourself with at the end of four months and longer, they're at least going to have been a great four months and something you shouldn't regret. Plus, if you two really feel it could have gone somewhere if only you had been in the same place together longer, then either you can make it work or you'll just leave it on a good note. You can send each other Christmas cards when you're friends years from now if that's the case. Romance and love isn't the only good outcome.
yeah, but only if the relationship lasted longer than that.
I mean, wasting time with something that I know from the beginning it won't have any kind of future, is not really my type. If it turned out in some long distance relationship it would be fine for me.
I had an exchange sister this past school year. She dated a guy at our school. And they were on and off more times than a light switch. They're still dating even though she's gone back to Germany, but he's seeing about six girls besides her. So I doubt I would.
Pft... HECK YEAH!
It's a win win. If you REALLY REALLY fall for her, one of you can has to work really hard and give up a lot so that you can be together (which makes the relationship more likely to last, by the way). If you end up not working out... YOU NEVER HAVE TO SEE HER AGAIN!
Seriously, win win situation.
I said maybe because it depends on how strong my connection is with the girl. It would be a case by case thing..
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Yup, I've done it before. I think it's fun, intriguing, and interesting to get to know someone who comes from another country
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Nope, I can't let my heart in on something I know will eventually end. The whole distance thing isn't my thing either.
of course. why not. it will be fun. a few months of relationship with an exotic stranger.:)
i say maybe, it depends how serious you hope to get, and how wiling to stay in touch you are.
I wouldn't date a tourist or an international student if they are only going to be here for 4 months, but I definitely would have no problem hookin' up with them.
Definitely, I just wouldn't allow myself to be infatuated. answer mine please?
Maybe- Depends on the chance and possibility of our relationship continuing if we became super attached.
Ah, that's an easy country to initiate foreign exchange with... I suppose if I knew we wanted to go for long term commitment, I'd do a semester or two of long-distance. If the flame wasn't dead after that, then do a year of foreign exchange. My answer may seem a bit strange to you, but I'm the kind of person looking to settle, not for a fling. That, and I love traveling ^_~
*Continent. Goodness, sorry. Either way, most countries inside Europe have good exchange systems.
I would be open to it qlthought I probably doubt it would be long term unless one was willing to move.
sure if she was good looking but it likely isn't going anywhere longterm . we'd both have to realize that going in I think
I would but at the same time I would keep in mind that he might leave soon.
as a short term thing, sure
no long distance for me though
Maybe it depends on if we would last.
Sure, if I was interested on him
Why wouldn't I? If we get along great and such.
I tried this summer, she rejected me though.
Nope...
You said she's out in less then 4 months... At best it's a short fling with the main goal being sex and short term companionship... If she's easy, I don't need to date her. We can just hook up and hang out from time to time... If she's she's like most girls that want to date, I'm probably going to have to get to know her a little bit, get her number and start talking to her (about one month gone), then I'm going to have to go on about 3 dates (about another month gone) to have sex with her... =P
Heeeell yeah!
Yepp :)
Yes, I would.
Yes, I would consider it a casual thing.
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