Don't say your not because you are. I seem to wind up hurt or cheated on by every guy I've ever been with like I don't go for one particular group of guys I'm pretty open about dating just no matter what guys I go for I always wind up hurt because they've cheated or broken hearted because I don't give them what they want?
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Obviously I agree with what's been said; generalizations suck and it's frustrating for me to hear people say this when two of the most amazing, mature, considerate people I know are guys.
But I'd also like to add something to ponder:
When teenage boys are raised in an environment that encourages them to be ruled by their penis and be a jerk because being nice is "p****-whipped"... some guys go right along with it.
Try going for guys who are more gentle, less macho, maybe even the quiet, shy ones. I'm not saying it will guarantee that you'll never get hurt, because sometimes even the most careful people accidentally end up with someone who's not right for them. But the older you get, the better you get at noticing "red flags."2