Once I loved a girl truly and she dumped me and now with another guy, problem is..
Now I still remember her and completely lost interest to date or love any other :/
Please help me, now I want to completely forget her ..
If you are single and happy...suggest me how to be..
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I'm not single currently. I love my relationship. However, I also love being single as well.
I find that you get different kinds of happiness from each situation. Like this:
Dating - companionship, someone to laugh with, physical needs being met, deeper social needs being met, someone warm to fall asleep with, etc. (Generally, this can be a very rewarding option. I get a lot of happiness out of this.)
Single - Freedom, less things to worry about, more time to self, more selections in terms of people, often more time with friends, etc. (This can also be very nice. You'll have to enjoy your own company though.)
I find that single isn't always for everyone. I'm happy even when single because I'm a self confident person. Many people feel worthless and horrible about themselves when they are dumped. Some people still rely on others to make themselves feel okay. In this case, the person would find being single absolute hell. Perhaps longing for the wonderful things that came from the relationships they once had.
It sounds to me like your heart has been broken and it hasn't healed. You're still hurting. It may take some time before you can feel better at all. Just know...that you don't need her to make you feel better again.
Here's my idea! Go out lots with your friends, okay? Even if you didn't want to go out, try to push yourself. Staying at home might just keep your mind spinning, and keep you wounded for longer. I find that even if I didn't want to go out at all, I always end up having a great time :) Just going out for a drink with everyone, maybe some wings, a movie, a night of xbox or something...They will pick you up and help you. ^_^
Best of luck, okay?1