if a guy calls you and you're busy or whatever and get a missed call, but don't return the call or text back, does it usually mean you're not interested and the guy should give up?
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After 2 calls you can start to wonder. If all fails send one text. If she ignores that, she's not interested. This doesn't speak anything bad about you as such, it just shows that this person is avoidant / not upfront / shy / doesn't know what to say, in any case, you don't need this - it means they're not ready anyway.
2 calls will not be needy/clingy. Make sure it's spaced, say a day or two apart. This shows proper interest - as if you have something important to say.
Sometimes after one call, especially if someone hasn't called them before, the person will wonder if it was a mistake, a call for a general chat, a question ~ something where they're like hmm.. was he really calling me? I won't do anything, I'll just wait and see.
Also don't forget not everyone likes talking on the phone, some people are scared of lack of conversations or only feel comfortable talking to certain people. Some have had a lot of bad experiences.
Maybe she's one of those girls asking her friends about what to do, asking them what they think you want.
There are a few more possibilities but really, she could just be busy. 4 hrs isn't long enough to call it quits.0