I feel like I genuinely like myself as a person. I'm nice and have a lot of friends and I am cute. I've been told this by many people, so I know its true. However when it comes to finding love and dating I seem to repel guys from me. What am I doing wrong?
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I consider it wrong, but that's just me being contrary.
I don't love myself, and I won't. I think it has more to do with being comfortable with yourself and caring enough to do regular upkeep (feel good, look good, be happy).
Pretty miserable to be around someone who strictly hates themselves and acts accordingly, dating would be even worse.
But I think a person can get by with understanding and accepting who they are without going as far as to love themselves. I'm mostly content. While I'd like to change a few things about myself - and I actively will if it's not just a trivial thing to me - I'm pretty satisfied with where I'm at. And as far as I can tell, nobody sees the difference. Pull a little charisma out of my hat and keep up my regular attitude, and most guys I meet seem to find it attractive. I can only speak for myself, though.
As for you, you may find that this advice is true or necessary or whatever anybody else says. You might not. Either way, it's how you carry yourself and conduct yourself in addition to how you treat and respect yourself.
There are guys out there, you're just in a rut, I think. I was the same way, and my sister is going through that very thing right now. Keep your chin up and don't let it discourage you. Just know you're awesome and keep on truckin'. When it rains, it pours. It'll get better.0