There's this girl who I've liked for a very long time. But I met her on the internet. I hung out with her last year. Haven't since. It took forever and so much try on my end to get her to come out. She brings her friend, I bring some of my friends. The girl I liked was sk shy the entire night that she would just stand there. Would not talk to me unless I talked to her. And I was really disappointed because I had high hopes for when we hung out again. Her friend and I seem to have a lot more in common and she is so much more outgoing. The girl I originally liked is a very good girl but its so hard for me to like a girl who will not talk to me. My friends tell me to give it time and she'll stop being so shy and open up. But I am a bull rider and the girl I liked first doesn't even care about bull riding. Her friend loves it. Bull riding is the most important thing in my life. When you have a really important hobby or passion its almost a dream to meet someone of the opposite gender who has a passion for that same thing, am I right?
Should I tell the girl I did like that I like her friend or should I tell the friend I like right now that I like her first then tell the first girl? I know she'll have her feelings hurt which makes it difficult for me to do anything.
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It would suck to hurt someone's feelings so I say, yes, tell the first girl you liked that though you like her, there really isn't any spark and chemistry and you appreciate her giving you some thought. But that you're intrested in her friend who you have a lot in common with, bull riding, ect. Tell her you just wanted to let her know out of courtesy and that most likely you'll probably be asking her out soon.
You don't really have to ask her permission since you never really had anything official going on. Be cordial about it and make your move.0